I wrote a reply to your question, hope it helps.
Regarding your opinion about this forum, I understand that can be frustrating asking a question and receive no useful replies, but remember that me and other users are here to help each other when is possible, in our free time, only to share and learn.
It's more easy to reply to simple questions (for example: how i add a security role?) but harder to reply to specific issues involving customizations as in your case.